Surviving the Festive Season with a New Baby

Attending gatherings with family and friends over the Christmas and summer holiday period (or at anytime in-fact) can be a little daunting. It's especially hard if this is your first baby, if you have a baby that tends to be fussy in the evenings or if you are still getting a handle on breastfeeding, settling, and 'mumming' in general.

Combine this steep learning curve with the possible need to travel or take your baby to an unfamiliar, stimulating environment and you have yourself a recipe for "do you think we can get out of going??" But you should go and enjoy yourself! Your family will be busting to meet your new addition and it's so important to get out of the house and have some normality!

Billy was 4 months old at his first Christmas and summer holidays and this is how we survived;

Don't get caught up in advice

While the lovely offers and advice from family can be well intended, always do what you feel is best. Taking unsolicited advice reluctantly will only leave you (and possibly your baby) stressed and you won't enjoy the get together

Try to think rationally

It is amazing how irrational you become when you have your first baby! New Years eve in Whangamata meant the usual loud music, fireworks, people yelling, dogs barking that I have heard every year but never noticed...but now it was during Billy's nap and bed time! Looking back, the amount of cursing I directed at these people in my head was hilarious, but at the time... pwhoah! Funniest thing was, the noises very rarely bothered Billy and when they did, a quick cuddle or breastfeed and he was back to sleep - no harm done!

Alcohol and breastfeeding

During the festive season it is always nice to kick back and have a nice glass of wine or whatever tickles your fancy. The questions often asked are; how much is OK to drink? And, how long do I have to wait to breastfeed after a drink? I've dedicated a whole blog to breastfeeding and drinking, here, and the Feedsafe app is also a great tool to use.

Look after you too

Make sure you remember to nap too!! Day naps are amazing so remember to get one in when you can - it is the holidays after all! Try and relax and enjoy your break with family and friends - this is important!

Merry Christmas lovelies! I hope you all have an amazing time with your family and friends, with love, Laura x

Beach trip with a baby must haves:

Baby sunblock

Baby sunhat

Baby sunglasses (if they will wear them!)

Muslin or Milkbar Sling for cover when feeding in the elements

Fave toys

Pram / Stroller - Sun Shade 

Front Pack / Carrier

Sun Umbrella & Large Beach Towels or Mats

Breastfeeding friendly dress to throw on over togs

Water water water - stay hydrated Mamas!

Have a blast with your littlies xx